“Why is it that some people can sing so well with little effort, while other people struggle to sing very poorly? Is it just a difference in natural inborn talent?”
Just about everyone could train to be a decent singer, but the main challenge is that people do not hear themselves the way other people hear them, so their pitch is off. They hear one pitch in their heads, but what they’re actually singing (and what other people hear) does not align with what they think they’re singing. If you do not believe this try recording your voice on a note taking device or cell phone if it can record. You will be very surprised, if not shocked.
This is a great analogy for why some people struggle so much when trying to manifest. The vibration they believe they’re putting out doesn’t match what they’re actually putting out. What they perceive in their heads isn’t what other people and the universe perceive is coming from them.
People who are struggling financially, often tell others about their efforts to apply the Law of Attraction through manifesting. They relate about how they dutifully shifted their vibration (thoughts, feelings, actions) to align with financial abundance, but they are still manifesting scarcity. Some of them are on the verge of concluding that the Law of Attraction does not really work.
However it only takes a few minutes of conversation it is very apparent to see that such people are still broadcasting scarcity through with every thought. How can they not see it? How can they convince themselves into thinking they have a mindset of abundance when it is so obvious they are still stuck in a scarcity mentality? Their mannerisms and choice of words always betray their true vibration.
It is the same with singing, isn’t it? The way you sound to others and the way you sound to yourself may not match. So which one is the true vibration you are putting out? When it comes to singing, the truth is represented by the sound waves emanating from your mouth. It doesn’t matter what you’re hearing in your head.
Many people do not realize that this is how the Law of Attraction works as well. Your true vibration is not what you’re thinking or feeling in your head. Your true vibration is what you’re broadcasting out to the universe.
Discovering and Correcting Vibrational Discord
Your thoughts and feelings are not equal to your vibration. They are merely effects of your vibration, but they get filtered through your beliefs. If your beliefs aren’t aligned with truth, then your inner perception of your vibration will be a distortion of your true vibration, so you won’t perceive yourself accurately. You may think you’re resonating with a certain energetic frequency like abundance, vitality, or love, when the truth is quite different.
How can you become aware of your true vibration if you cannot blindly trust what you’re thinking and feeling?
The solution is that you need to create a feedback loop, whereby you can observe yourself objectively to get a better sense of what you’re actually putting out. This will help you make adjustments to correct inaccuracies in your internal self-image.
It is important for singers to record themselves singing and to listen to the playback. This helps them hear what’s really coming out of their mouths. If they are singing off-key, they will hear it in the recording, and then they can make adjustments
You can use a similar method to discover and correct your own vibrational misalignments. Record yourself, either with audio or video. Video is best because it gives you more information.
Record yourself talking frankly about your finances. Record a conversation with your significant other probing the depths of your relationship. Record yourself interacting socially and frankly with friends and family. Record yourself giving a speech any subject close to your heart will do. Record yourself working at your desk, do not forget to prime others what you are doing. Then watch the playback in detail. If you have never done this before, you will be surprised. It is a very eye-opening experience.
If you record video, watch the playback once with video and the sound turned off. Then listen to the audio only without looking at the video. You will pick up different insights. With no sound you can observe your body language. With no video you can pay more attention to your voice tone and delivery. This will help you see if you are being congruent on all channels or if you’re sending mixed messages. For example, are you speaking confidently while your body language broadcasts insecurity? That would indicate that your true vibration is mixed as well, and that will surely affect your results.
Another thing you can do is invite someone else to observe you. This may take some courage, but it is a great way to discover new truths. You may be very surprised at a friends honesty when asked to help in this way. It is especially helpful to get feedback from people who are already steeped in and emanating the type of vibration you would like to integrate.
Ask someone who is already enjoying financial abundance to listen to you talk about your finances for a few minutes. They may not even realise that their abundance was gained through their unconcious use of through the Law of Attraction. Ask someone who has a loving relationship to watch you interact socially with others. Ask someone who is very healthy and fit to watch you eat and prepare a meal, do your exercise routine, and listen to you talk about your health habits. Then ask those people to give you brutally honest feedback. Believe what they tell you and be ready to use the feedback, people are not normally prone to lie when asked to give an honest opinion.
We all have blind spots, it is natural. In order to become aware of those blind spots, we need to take a step back and observe what’s really coming out of us. What are the real vibrations we’re broadcasting, and how do they compare with what we think we’re broadcasting?
Making Adjustments
Once you have a chance to observe yourself, make some changes based on your new distinctions. Make the coarse adjustments first, and then work on the finer adjustments.
In many cases objective self-observation is the key limiting step. The challenge is to become aware of your shortcomings and to see yourself accurately. Once you have done that, correcting those actions can usually be achieved via basic trial and error. Make changes, record yourself again, and notice how it looks. Keep cycling through this feedback loop until you can observe that you have it right. Depending on the nature of your challenge, it may take some time to get where you want to go, but at least it is doable.
In some areas of life, such as in our human relationships, the natural feedback loop plays out much more slowly. However, you can still gain a lot of information by paying attention to your immediate results and your objectively observable momentum. If you claim to be resonating with financial abundance, but your present reality is that you’re sinking into debt and unpaid bills are piling up, something isn’t right. When you see that your results are out of alignment with your intentions, those are the best places to start investigating.
Do your best not to blame the Law of Attraction for your personal failings. That cannot possibly help. If you aren’t getting the results you intend, you need look no further than your lack of vibrational alignment. The answer lies within not in your environment. A lack of results means that you have not hit the right frequency (vibration) to manifest your intentions yet. You are still singing off-key. You may think you’re hitting the right notes, but if you have not observed your own output via objective means like recording devices and consultations with others who are already experts at those frequencies, how can you really know what frequencies you’re actually broadcasting? You cannot know!
If you want to get better at applying the Law of Attraction, you can’t simply go scouring through your thoughts and feelings, hoping to get everything perfect on the inside. You can’t create a good feedback loop entirely in your mind. It is too easy to get lost in a tangled web of belief filters. You need to pull back, get into observer mode, and see yourself from the outside looking in. Get out of your head and your ego, and diagnose the problem holistically and objectively. Only then will you be able to apply a holistic solution that actually works splendidly every time.
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