The Law of Attraction simply says that you attract into your life whatever you think about, negative or positive. Your dominant thoughts will always and without exception find a way to manifest. But the Law of Attraction gives rise to some tough questions that do not seem to have good answers. This article aims to address some of the common questions arising from excursions into the universe of the Law of Attraction. However, many of these problems are not caused by the Law of Attraction itself but rather by the Law of Attraction as applied to objective reality.
Some books hint at the solution but never really nail it. That nail, however, can be found in the concept of subjective reality.
Subjective reality is a belief system in which:
(1) There is only one consciousness.
(2) You are that singular consciousness.
(3) Everything and everyone in your reality is a projection of your thoughts.
So what is the secret; subjective reality neatly answers all these tricky Law of Attraction questions In subjective reality there is only one consciousness, and guess what it is yours. Consequently, there is only one source of intentions in your universe and that is you. While you may observe lots of external bodies in your reality, they all exist inside your consciousness. You know this is how your dreams work, but you have not yet realized your waking reality is just another type of dream. It only seems solid because you believe (intend) it is.
Since none of the other characters you encounter are conscious in a way that is separate from you, nobody else can have intentions. The only intentions are yours. You are the only thinker in this universe.
It’s important to correctly define the you in subjective reality. You are not your physical body. This is not the ego based you at all. There is no suggesting you are a conscious body walking around in a world full of unconscious automatons. That would be a total misunderstanding of subjective reality. The correct viewpoint is that you are the single consciousness in which this entire reality takes place.
Imagine you are having a dream. In your dream what exactly are you? Are you the physical dream character you identify with? No, of course not, that is just your dream avatar. You are the dreamer. The entire dream occurs within your consciousness. All dream characters are projections of your dream thoughts, including your avatar. In fact, if you learn lucid dreaming, you can even switch avatars in your dream by possessing another character. In a lucid dream, you can do anything you believe you can.
Physical reality works the same way. This is a denser universe than what you experience in your sleeping dreams, so changes occur a bit more gradually here. But this reality still conforms to your thoughts just like a sleeping dream. You are the dreamer in which all of this is taking place.
The idea that other people have intentions is an illusion because other people are just projections. Of course, if you strongly believe other people have intentions, then that is the dream you’ll create for yourself. But ultimately it’s still an illusion.
Here is how subjective reality answers these challenging Law of Attraction questions:
What happens when people put out conflicting intentions, like two people intending to get the same work promotion when only one position is available?
Since you are the only intender, this is entirely an internal conflict, within you. You are holding the thought (the intention) for both people to want the same position. But you are also thinking (intending) that only one can get it. So you are intending competition. This whole situation is your creation. You believe in competition, so that is what you bring about by manifesting. Maybe you have some beliefs (thoughts and intentions) about who will get the promotion, in which case your expectations will manifest. But you may have a higher order belief that life is random, unfair, uncertain, etc., so in that case you may manifest a surprise because that is what you are intending.
Being the only intender in your reality places a huge responsibility on your shoulders. You can give up control of your reality by thinking (intending) randomness and uncertainty, but you can never give up responsibility. You are the sole creator in this universe. If you think about negative things, that is exactly what you’ll manifest. If you think about positive things, you’ll manifest themt too. Your reality is exactly what you think it is. Whenever you think about anything, you summon its manifestation.
If I intend for a relationship to improve, but your spouse doesn’t seem to care, what will happen?
This is another example of intending conflict. You are projecting one intention for your avatar and one for your spouse, so the actual unified intention is that of conflict. Hence the result you experience, subject to the influence of your higher order beliefs, will be to experience conflict with your spouse. If your thoughts are conflicted, your reality is conflicted.
This is why assuming responsibility for your thoughts is so important. If you want to see peace in the world, then intend peace for everything in your reality. If you want to see abundance in the world, then intend it for everyone. If you want to enjoy loving relationships, then intend loving relationships for all. If you intend these only for your own avatar but not for others, then you are intending conflict, division, and separation; consequently, that is what you’ll experience.
If you stop thinking about something entirely, does that mean it disappears? Yes, technically it does. But in practice it is impossible to undo what you’ve already manifested, unless you move into a new round of manifesting to reverse it. You will continue creating the same problems just by noticing them. But when you assume 100% responsibility for everything you are experiencing in your reality right now — absolutely everything, then you assume the power to alter your reality by redirecting your thoughts.
This entire reality is your creation. Feel good about that. Feel grateful for the richness of your world. And then begin creating the reality you truly want by making decisions and holding intentions. Think about what you desire, and withdraw your thoughts from what you do not want. The most natural, easiest way to do this is to pay attention to your emotions. Emotions are a strong driving force in the process. Thinking about your desires feels good, and thinking about what you do not want makes you feel bad. When you notice yourself feeling bad, you have caught yourself thinking about something you do not want. Turn your focus back towards what you do want, and your emotional state will improve rapidly. As you do this repeatedly, you will begin to see your physical reality shift too, first in subtle ways and then in bigger and bigger leaps.
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